5/23/16

Today’s Horoscope

All Signs:
Today the stars want to warn you about loving someone that hates themselves. They can't stress this enough. When someone hates themselves, there's usually nothing you can do to change that. You might think that love can conquer all, and while love can accomplish great things, the people you lavish it on must be receptive.
When someone truly hates themselves, most times loving them unconditionally only makes them resent you. Your love makes them hate themselves even more, age in turn hate you. It is a losing battle, and they will go out of their way to prove to you and the world how horrible they really are.
It will break your heart. There is no way to win. These people have been damaged and broken, maybe not beyond repair, but you are not the ones to fix them. With a lot of work, they can fix themselves, but it will take a herculean effort. If they are trying, then, and only then will you have a chance to be able to help them, but even then it will be hard and torturous and filled with setbacks.
Unfortunately for them, and for you, they have been destroyed by something or someone before you came along. The reason you cannot fix them is because they need to hear it from the people that devastated them in the first place, and more often than not that person is not going to give them what they need.
They need to know why. They need to hear that they were innocent, that they were wronged, that the person that did this to them is sorry. In almost every case, any person that can take something so valuable from someone else so casually isn't looking to admit their transgressions.
So the victim is left holding the bag, and if you aren't careful you will be the stand in for the perpetrators, and you will get all the anger, all the scorn, every horrible thing they can twist around and blame on you.
Don't misunderstand. They will love you in their own twisted way. More than anything on this planet.
And that is why they will hate you. That is why they will betray you and hurt you and discard you for others that treat them badly. They want you to see that they don't deserve you. They want to be the worst person they can possibly be, because that's who they think they are.
It is tragic, and terrible, and heartbreaking when it's someone you love. When you think you met your soulmate, and they try so hard for a while to be what you want them to be, what they wish they were. But it won't last, and soon it will become clear who they really are, and then God help you.
Sometimes though, it's your child, and you can't walk away. You can't do anything but live a nightmare and hope to God you can get through to them before drugs or depression or recklessness or psychosis does them in. It is one the most heartbreaking scenarios life can throw at you.
So the stars want to tell you, if you know any people like this, pity them. They are living in hell, full of self hatred and utter disgust, living a delusion that tears them apart. It causes them to commit atrocities, to harm themselves and to rip themselves apart. Don't chastise them, don't hurt or abuse them, or take advantage of them and add to their pain.
But don't give your lives to them. They will never appreciate it, they are incapable. They are incapable of truly loving you, no matter what they tell you. They will only punish you while they punish themselves.
The stars want to help, always. They want to enlighten, and encourage, and save each and every one of us.
They know that they can't. They will be here, forever providing a light to call the ones they love back home, but they know that call will many times go unanswered.
They know sometimes that there is no solution, nothing they can do, no correct reaction, no good outcome.
And they cry harder than you ever thought possible, as their heart breaks and they say goodbye.