11/11/17

Today's Horoscope

All signs:

The stars want you think about what a lifetime of being unaccepting, angry, and full of hatred gets you. Usually, it's just a chorus of other maladjusted people, shouting along with you. A chorus that will rise up against you the first chance they get, the moment you do anything that irks them.

Try tolerance and acceptance, it gets you tolerant, loving people that actually care about you.

The choice is yours.

11/10/17

Today's Horoscope

All signs:

The stars just want to say that it's hard living in a world that doesn't respond to logic and reason, especially when everyone's ideas of what's logical and reasonable differ so radically.

So you're going to have to accept that from your vantage point, the world is going to seem to be made up of delusional and obstinate idiots, and that there's nothing you can ever do to change that. Otherwise you're just going to be unhappy most of the time, trying to control something you can't. So ignore the ones that seem too far gone, and work on being okay with letting the rest be imperfect.

Until you realize that you're the delusional and obstinate idiot in everyone else's life, you're going to just to be banging your head against the wall most of the time.

The stars think you have better things to do.

11/09/17

Today's Horoscope

All signs:

The stars often tell you how you need to examine yourself, and how you need to love and respect yourself. They continue to press you on the subject, to remind you that self worth and self reliance is so important to overcome the fears and insecurities that trip you up and sabotage your life.

And that's all true.

The stars want to also let you know that it's okay to be overwhelmed and frightened, and sometimes it all seems like it's too much to overcome. You aren't alone, and you don't have to do it all yourself.

We are each surrounded by those that love us, whether we want to believe it or not.

Let that love wrap you up and bring you comfort in those moments when you don't feel like you can love yourself.

Let the strength of others bring you strength when you feel like you can't keep going, or you want to be self destructive.

Let the light of others, and even the stars, guide you when you lose your way from time to time.

Yes, you need to learn to love and rely on yourself, but that does not mean that you're alone. You are never alone, that is just something your brain tells you in those times you wrongly convince yourself that you deserve to be.

You are swaddled in love and well wishes, bathed in light and promise, if only you open your eyes.

11/08/17

Today's Horoscope

All signs:

The stars want to give you a bit of advice: become more self aware!

The stars have the luxury of seeing all of us from the outside, where it's easy to take everything in. From in the inside looking out, it's harder to see sometimes.

It takes work to monitor your actions and responses. Emotions and insecurities and misunderstanding often guide how we act. It takes a real effort to train your mind to be cognizant of what you're doing.

It takes asking hard questions of yourself, and admitting the real answers you want to ignore. It takes having the courage to say you don't understand something and ask somebody for help. It takes looking your faults in the eye, and to stop defending what you know is wrong.

It is accepting that you are fallible, and that there's nothing wrong with that, instead of doubling down and looking like a fool.

The stars want you to know that ignoring the parts of you that make you look like a hypocrite, a fool, or a bully can only make things worse. Refusing to see how your actions not only present you to the world, but poison your relationships with everyone you come in contact with is not going to make your life better. Not noticing how selfish you are, and how tone deaf you are to opposing ideas is only going to isolate you.

One of the most important things you can do for yourself and the world around you is to become more self aware and understand who you are and how you could be better.

The stars suggest you get on that, before you completely lose track of you.

11/07/17

Today's Horoscope

All signs:

The stars want to talk to your about the people in your life. A lot of us have insecurities, and trust issues, and a whole host of other problems that make us want to control the other people we know. We get jealous, we fear they will leave us or find something better. We think they like others more than us.

So we try to manipulate them, or make them feel sorry for us, or even threaten or abuse them in some desperate ploy to get them to love us and only us. That can never work.

It only builds resentment or fear, and makes whomever you want to love you lose respect for you instead.

You should want the people in your life to be who they are, freely and happy. If you truly care about someone, you should want them to be all that they can be, and you should want them to share that with you. When you try to control them, they will invariably hide the most precious and beautiful things about themselves from you, for fear you will take the joy out of them. And you will.

Instead, celebrate who they are with them, and you'll grow and find out wondrous things. You'll get to share in their lives because they will want to share with you. They will want to be with you. They will truly love you.

Or you can just keep on trying in desperation to force someone to be with you, and drive them away. Do you really think that little of yourself that no one would just want to be with you because they love you?

11/06/17

Today's Horoscope

All signs:

Every time you do the right thing, there is no guarantee that it will make your life better. Just as each time you make a bad choice, there is a good chance that it will have no repercussions, and you might actually profit from it.

You can be the best employee and still get laid off. You could be the most attentive and supportive lover and still have your heart ripped in two. You can eat right and exercise and still get stricken with disease or a faulty heart valve.

You could do everything right, and be the best person you possibly can, but that doesn't mean you will get rewarded for it. In many cases, it will seem like life will take a perverse joy in punishing you for it.

This arrangement might make you bitter, and cause you to wonder why you do it at all.

The stars want to remind you that you aren't supposed to do the right things because you expect a reward. You do the right things because they are right.

They also want to tell you that there is a reward, but often, you aren't the one that gets it. If you can be the one person that still does the right thing when no one else is, you stand a good chance of making a difference in someone else's life. You might not be around to see the fruits of that labor, but your example usually doesn't go unnoticed.

That choice you made might only make a tiny difference, but it could ripple out, and affect generations. It could change a tiny bit of the world.

There is a reward for you, too. You get to live knowing you didn't make things worse. It may have been a tough choice you made, but by making it, you showed respect to yourself. You gave yourself a little more self esteem, and you may have saved yourself a lot of angst, and some trouble down the road.

Rewards aren't always instantaneous, and they aren't always obvious.

And remember, you aren't even supposed to be looking for them in the first place.

11/05/17

Today's Horoscope

All signs:

The stars know that sometimes the things you think are miracles turn out to be something of the opposite. That can hurt; it can hurt you so much.

But that still doesn't mean that there's no such things as miracles.