Today's Horoscope
All Signs:
Sometimes other people hurt us or do wrong by us and we try to justify it by making it our fault. Perhaps we can't understand why someone we love would do something so bad and betray us when all we want is to make them happy.
We don't deserve to be treated that way, and nothing that we do means that we should be lied to, or met with such cruelty. Nothing.
Maybe they acted the way they did and went out of their way to devastate us because we didn't pay enough attention, or try hard enough. Maybe we could have anticipated their mood and have tread lightly around their feelings, unfair as they might have seemed.
Perhaps we could have done something differently and avoided making them feel like they had to do whatever spiteful and malicious thing they did to cause us pain. If only we had done things differently, they wouldn't have had to lie, or cheat, or manipulate or use us. Who’s to say that one person is at fault? It takes two, doesn't it?
Maybe we should have been the adult and taken their immaturity or mental condition into account. After all, we let them do it.
You see how easy it is to shift that blame? These are the games some people play to try to justify their horrible actions.
The stars want you to understand how important it is to examine your actions and learn about who you are. If you know that you're a bad person, you wouldn't be struggling with why someone did something unspeakable to you.
If you know you're a good person, you shouldn't let cruel or damaged people make you question that, but sadly, being a good person usually allows them to do that to you in a regular basis.
The stars advise you to get to a point where you no longer let them make you question who you are, and then you can demand that someone treat you as well as you treat them.
Imagine that!
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