Today's Horoscope
All signs:
The stars want to warn you about denial. One of the main things holding many people back is self denial.
Because of it, we get caught up in bad relationships, lying to ourselves over and over again that things will get better, that things will change. We spend so much time in misery, trapped in a situation we hate while we deny what we really want.
Self denial allows us to hold on to some of our worst traits. Many times we want to distance ourselves from horrible behavior, but at the same time ignore our own similar behavior. We say “that's not me”, in an attempt to justify our own actions that mimic the very ones from which we claim to abhor.
Self denial feeds our addictions. We tell ourselves that we have no problem with certain habits, it's just harmless fun or not hurting anybody. Then one day we find our lives in ruins and chaos.
We put off bettering ourselves because we fool ourselves into thinking it's no big deal. We lie to ourselves and say no one notices, then one day look around to see that we are alone because we've driven everyone away. Even then we will tell ourselves that it's everyone else's fault.
All because we somehow denied the obvious. The stars want us to realize that we could save ourselves so much time and trouble and misery if we had just paid attention and admitted and accepted the reality in the first place.
Go ahead, try to deny it.
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