Tuesday, October 3, 2017

10/3/17 Day After Something Horrible Edition

Today's Horoscope, day after something horrible edition

All signs:
The stars know we are all reeling, yet again. A new day, even so closely following a tragedy, is often enough time for us to start coping.
That doesn't mean we care any less, it doesn't mean we are forgetting about the victims. Adaptability is our strength, and everyone adapts differently, in their own time. Don’t chastise people just because they handle pain differently than you do.  Don’t attack people because they are ready to have a discussion, even if you are not there yet.
Some people turn to faith, some to humor, and some occasionally act out badly, but try to have some understanding and some patience and some tolerance. We all should get a grace period.
These are difficult times, and if the stars can give you any advice, it is too try stay positive in your reactions. Don't deepen the divide if you can help it. It is a natural reaction to lash out in frustration, but that doesn't mean it is the best way to handle things. You end up hurting others, and hurting your own cause most of the time.
Don't use it as an excuse to throw up your hands and give in to depression, or turn to drugs or alcohol or any other addictions. Again, that's just causing more pain down the road.  Please do not let it take you to a place where you end up harming yourself.  Remember that there are so many more good things in the world if you just take the time to consciously look for them.  Talk to someone if you are having trouble seeing them.  What do you have to lose?
Instead, the stars think you should channel the pain and anger and any other emotion you are feeling into positive pursuits.  Trying to make the world better is always the best way to start, and you can do that any number of ways.  Donating, volunteering, helping anyone you know that might be having trouble coming to grips with what happened.   There is always something constructive you can do that won’t take any more energy than tearing down would, so everyone is better off if you go in that direction, especially yourself.
On top of everything, keep in mind that you don’t always get every single thing your way in life.  We need to remember to compromise if we want things to change.  The stars have noticed that somehow we have all gotten to a place where we only see one solution and we close our minds to anything else.   That is not how the world works, that is not how government works, that is not how any healthy relationship works.  You need to give a little to get a little, and seeing how the thing we might be getting is keeping our loved ones alive, the stars think that compromise is in all of your best interests.
So while this will undoubtedly not be the last time a tragedy like this occurs, at least next time it happens we can point to the things we did to try to make it better rather than to just spin our wheels in pain and frustration.  
And one last thing.  The stars want you to know that they love you.  They want you to be happy. They admire your strength and your resiliency and the fact that despite a number of bad things anyone can point to, on the whole you are way ahead of the game.  The world is still filled with joy and beauty and love, and that’s the human races accomplishment. They know you get a bad rap, especially from yourselves, but it is undeservedly so in most instances. Expect better of yourself and others, and watch how you blossom!
The stars are proud of you and they know the score, even if it’s not always apparent.  

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