3/12/18

Today's Horoscope

All signs:
There are bad days when you feel like you can't do anything right. Worse are the days when it seems no one else can do anything right. It seems like no one can see anything you need, and in fact it seems like they are just out to spite you.
That's usually not the case. People are just wrapped up in their own problems most of the time, and they go through the day with tunnel vision. They also might feel as you do, that no one cares about their troubles or needs, so resentment grows.
The stars hate that they see so many people crying out for help, only to see them fall into the same pattern of bitterness and sadness when they don't get what they need. All of us, wondering why no one seems to care while we blindly disregard what others need ourselves.
The stars watch as we look to the same faces and the same places for understanding and relief, only to be disappointed again and again. If people aren't fulfilling your needs, and have no desire to change, go find new people that can.
Before you do that, make sure you're fulfilling the needs of the people in your life. Especially your own. You can't expect people to be there for you if you're not there for them. And you can't expect them to do the work that you should be doing for yourself.
The world is a messed up place, and relationships are tricky and full of pitfalls. That's how it's been since time began, and still plenty of people have managed to figure it out along the way. You can too. To do that, you need to adapt, and accept that things change. You have to make an effort to be there for those around you, and actively work on being a better person. You need to figure out what makes you happy and what you need for a fulfilling life, and go after those things.
Or you can sit and wonder why you're miserable, and your life is filled with people that don't seem to care. You can feel sorry for yourself, and stubbornly bang your head against the same wall and wonder why nothing gets better.
You can work towards happiness and what you want, or you can deny yourself that, and wallow in the toxic mess you cultivate and wonder why it hurts so much.
The stars can't comprehend why such an easy choice is so hard for you to make.