4/18/18

Today's Horoscope

All signs:
The stars want to remind you that if you want to be that person people come to with all there problems, then people are going to come to you with all their problems. Constantly.
If you have a big heart and are full of empathy, or if you are simply needy and in denial about it, you might find yourself surrounded by people who are constantly in crisis. Some people are givers, and some are takers. The takers can spot a giver a mile away.
Being a taker is not meant as a derogatory term. In fact, most givers should learn to take a little themselves. Usually a giver becomes so immersed in their role that they can't ask for help themselves. They see themselves as the person who helps, not the person who needs help.
Some givers give too much, and some takers take too much, and then you have enabling and codependency. It's a tricky thing on both sides, and often way out of balance.
The only point that the stars want to make here is that givers and takers usually seek each other out, whether they realize it or not. So if your life is full of takers, don't be surprised if no one even notices when you are going through a hard time. That's not your role, so no one will recognize it when it happens. Your life should be full of givers and takers, and they should give and take in moderation, and that's something that's nearly impossible to achieve.
The stars recommend that if you are a giver, you better have a very strong sense of self, because most likely that's who is going to be there for you when times get rough.