4/4/18 Middle Of The Week Bonus

Today’s Horoscope - Middle of the week bonus

All Signs:
The stars know that some of you are really having a tough time of it. Hang in there, you’ve made it this far. Think of all the good things you have experienced in your life, and realize that there are more of those good things to come. Power through whatever you are dealing with now, and keep an eye on what’s important and what’s to come. You are loved. Your problems are valid. Whether you see it right now or not, people are rooting for you.
And if someone you know is having a hard time of it, just comfort them. Encourage them. Give them your sympathy. Too often we react by judging whether or not their pain or problems are valid, and ignore or chastise them, but that is lousy behavior. No matter what judgements you harbor, nothing justifies ignoring a person in pain or crisis.
Do some of them do it for attention? Possibly, but the fact remains that they feel they need attention. Maybe they are lonely or insecure or just sad. You’ve never felt that way? A few seconds out of your day to acknowledge them is too much for you? Maybe they are needy, but if your friends aren’t there to make you feel needed, then why are they there?
Is their problem something you have had to deal with? Are you bitter because you had to do it alone, so why should they get any help? That’s about as selfish as you could get. Why deny others just because others denied you?
The stars think that if you care about people, you should give them what they need if you can. Don’t judge, don’t berate, don’t ignore. Just tell them that you love them. If you can’t do it, then why do you even call them your friend in the first place?