Today's Horoscope
All signs:
The stars want to talk to your about the people in your life. A lot of us have insecurities, and trust issues, and a whole host of other problems that make us want to control the other people we know. We get jealous, we fear they will leave us or find something better. We think they like others more than us.
So we try to manipulate them, or make them feel sorry for us, or even threaten or abuse them in some desperate ploy to get them to love us and only us. That can never work.
It only builds resentment or fear, and makes whomever you want to love you lose respect for you instead.
You should want the people in your life to be who they are, freely and happy. If you truly care about someone, you should want them to be all that they can be, and you should want them to share that with you. When you try to control them, they will invariably hide the most precious and beautiful things about themselves from you, for fear you will take the joy out of them. And you will.
Instead, celebrate who they are with them, and you'll grow and find out wondrous things. You'll get to share in their lives because they will want to share with you. They will want to be with you. They will truly love you.
Or you can just keep on trying in desperation to force someone to be with you, and drive them away. Do you really think that little of yourself that no one would just want to be with you because they love you?
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