Today’s Horoscope
All Signs:
The stars know that people can be casually cruel. They can hurt you and tear you down as efficiently as any villain in a movie or a soap opera.
The stars know that really does a number on you, and they feel bad for you. They also want you to know that most of the time the people being cruel don’t even realize that they are doing it. Most of the time they are simply oblivious, to their carelessness or whatever strange issue or insecurity is occupying their brain at the time.
Unless you are friends with a bunch of psychopaths(and that is a possibility, so make sure you’re not), the people in your life are as cruel to themselves as they are to you. They act out of compulsion, from jealousy, fear, insecurity, or just because they are so wrapped up in whatever is tormenting them that they carelessly cut you and don’t even see it.
Even though it might hurt your feelings, it can be forgiven.
That is unless it becomes a pattern. It can still be forgiven, but you might want to reconsider if you want someone so thoughtless or selfish in your life. If you point it out, and tell them how you feel, but they keep doing it, it may be time to move on. You can understand why someone treats you badly, and you can forgive them for it, but you don’t have to put up with it in your life.
The stars think you shouldn’t have people in your life that repeatedly make you feel bad, intentional or not. Even if there is no real intent or malice, it is still bad behavior. That’s the risk you run when you fill your life with people that are not self aware. They will continue their selfish ways, always causing drama and bad feelings. Why put yourself through that?
Malicious or careless, if the result is still the same, does it really make a difference?
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