Today's horoscope
All signs:
Someone is going to say something insulting or insensitive to you. They may not even realize they did it, but it will hurt you, or piss you off, or make you rethink your whole relationship with them. If it's a rare occasion when they say something like that, instead of getting angry or indignant you should make sure that they are not preoccupied with some problem or dealing with some crap of their own. They might have so much on their mind that they just let something slip through the polite facade we all try to maintain. We all do it occasionally. Of course, maybe they do it all the time, and they're some passive/aggressive jerk. Usually if those people are still around, they are family, and you can't just jettison them from your life. Sometimes it's a parent that does it and it cuts you to the core. You can try to talk to them, and find out why they do it, but honestly, it will probably do no good. It's who they are, and at this point it is a part of your relationship that's been defined over your whole lifetime. The problem is...
All signs:
You're going to have to deal with someone you love behaving in a way that irks you, annoys you, or just leaves you bewildered, and you just don't understand why. It won't be the first time and it won't be the last, so you better decide how you want to deal with it. It might just be an annoying habit, or some weird belief they hold, or some relative or friend that takes advantage of them, or it just might be who they are, whatever they do that frustrates the hell out of you. The thing is, you're not going to change them. They have to see their own behavior and acknowledge it, and then work to change it themselves. They might even see it and acknowledge it, but never change it, which is particularly infuriating. They might even be messing up their lives, but you are not going to be able to help them unless they want to change and want to accept your help. Everyone moves on their own schedule, and it's not your job to change that. Mostly though, it will just be little shit that drives you up a wall, in which case there is another way...
All signs:
Today you will have several chances to learn and reinforce a great and simple truth about life. When someone or something annoys you, or hurts you, or just pisses you the fuck off, take a moment and realize that you are in complete control of how you let that thing affect you. You are the one allowing that thing to have power over you. You are the only one that can decide how you are going to react and if you're going to let it ruin your day. The minute you allow yourself to let it alter your mood or mess with your self worth, it is your fault, not the person that (usually unwittingly) said or did something that sent you into this spiral. Your ego has deftly and insidiously made it all about you, and now you are the asshole twisting yourself up inside. So now that you know it's going to happen (thanks to my uncanny ability to predict the future based on constellations), try to head that shit off and be conscious of the fact that you can take an active part in making yourself happy instead of making yourself miserable. After all, if you truly know who you are, nothing anyone does or says can hurt you or change that. And don't worry. If you have trouble getting all that accomplished today, you'll get plenty of chances to try again because people are always going to do or say something with the potential to upset you. You don't need a horoscope to tell you that.
Aquarius:
Clip your toenails for God's sake! You're making us sick.
No comments:
Post a Comment