The stars want you to remember that so many of us are all kind of inept at simply letting people like us. We judge ourselves too harshly, and none of us can just seem to take a compliment. Some of us panic when others tell us how amazing they think we are.
Yet so many of us strive to be all things to all people. We second guess ourselves, we go out of our way to please, we become whoever we think other people want, just so someone will like us. Then, in the cruelest irony, we can't even accept it when they do. We feel it's a sham, and think about how much they would hate us if they knew the way we really were. Then we grow more defensive or insecure or isolated, or we fill ourselves with more self loathing.
So much of our lives plays out in our own head. None of it is reality. None of it is productive or positive or even fair, to you or others.
The stars suggest you just be who you are, and not worry about whether anyone else cares or not. The right people will, and they will love you for all the right reasons. Then you can live comfortably and secure in the fact that you are truly you, without all the second guessing and masks and effort to please everyone but yourself.
Then you can find out just how amazing you really are.
Yet so many of us strive to be all things to all people. We second guess ourselves, we go out of our way to please, we become whoever we think other people want, just so someone will like us. Then, in the cruelest irony, we can't even accept it when they do. We feel it's a sham, and think about how much they would hate us if they knew the way we really were. Then we grow more defensive or insecure or isolated, or we fill ourselves with more self loathing.
So much of our lives plays out in our own head. None of it is reality. None of it is productive or positive or even fair, to you or others.
The stars suggest you just be who you are, and not worry about whether anyone else cares or not. The right people will, and they will love you for all the right reasons. Then you can live comfortably and secure in the fact that you are truly you, without all the second guessing and masks and effort to please everyone but yourself.
Then you can find out just how amazing you really are.
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