6/3/19

Today's Horoscope

All your life, you will meet people who cry and complain that only want to be loved or cared for or happy. They will tell you about all the horrible things that people have done to them, and let them down, and how they are always a victim of circumstance.
Now the stars are not victim blaming. Bad stuff happens to good people all the time. Things happen that are not people's faults, that is true in a lot of cases, especially when you're younger. At some point, you should gain enough wisdom to start evening out the playing field.
As you grow older, if you pay attention and you learn from your bad experiences or mistakes, you start to avoid bad people and situations. You start to realize that life takes effort. You learn responsibility, you learn that taking the easy way rarely gets you what you want. You learn how to protect yourself from being fooled over and over by the same old tricks.
The point the stars are trying to make is that as you get older, you have to understand that some people will never learn. They say they want the same things you do, and you try to give them just that, and they throw it away like it was nothing. They are incapable of understanding what love and commitment and selfishness are, so they can't appreciate it or return it.
That is because most of the important things in life are obtainable on your own. You control your happiness, your self esteem, your moral code, and your good and bad decisions.
So if you meet someone who wants you to figure all that out and provide it for them, to save them, you're going to be hurt and treated badly, because if they really wanted all that, they would have just done it themselves in the first place.